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When we think of the word “compromise,” we may be reminded of two people with opposing views coming together to reach middle ground. Merriam-Webster defines the verb tense of compromise as “coming to an agreement by mutual concession” but also as “making a shameful or disreputable concession.” As one considers the biblical view of compromise, examples of both definitions can be found. We recall that Jesus said, “Agree with your adversary quickly, while you are on the way with him” (Matt. 5:25). Luke’s version of that verse says make every effort along the way to settle with your opponent. For both parties to agree there has to be compromise. Compromise is also considered a key ingredient in successful relationships and marriages. World-renowned therapist Dr. John Gottman’s research shows that the old saying “it is better to bend than to break” is true. But of course, the Lord has known this all along.
But when is compromise a bad thing? As we go to the Scriptures to find the answer, there is to be no compromise when it comes to sin. Both the church at Corinth and the church in Pergamos had the problem of compromise (1 Cor. 5; Rev. 2:12-18). In each case, the church had allowed sexually immoral behavior and idolatry to infiltrate the membership. Paul used, as Jesus did, the metaphor of the leaven (yeast) in a lump of bread dough which spreads throughout the dough (Matt. 16:6; Gal. 5:9; 1 Cor. 5:6). We might say, “If you sleep with dogs, you’re gonna get fleas.” Sin is contagious and numbing, and if gone unchecked will become normalized to us (1 Tim. 4:2). Paul would warn, “But actually, I wrote you not to associate with anyone who claims to be a brother or sister and is sexually immoral or greedy, an idolater or verbally abusive, a drunkard or a swindler. Do not even eat with such a person” (1 Cor. 5:11). That may sound harsh, but if some of our beloved members are engaged in sinful behavior, we can in no way condone their actions. We cannot compromise! However, God has given us His precious longsuffering and pardon which allows us to bring the wandering sinner back into the fold through prayer and encouragement without compromise (Gal. 6:1-2; James 5:19-20).
Jay Launius
Maud church of Christ
Maud, TX